Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Tough Times in South Africa

It’s been a hard week or two for Elder Wells. Some very difficult issues have been presented by several of the mission presidents requiring some serious counseling with presidents as well as missionaries. Over the week end the phone and Skype lines were kept busy with calls to and from Salt Lake. This morning I caught him reading this book, Hold on to Hope.

I tried to encourage him by handing him this one: Gifts of Self Esteem "You are doing fine, Elder. It's just one of those difficult periods in your life."


Then to make matters worse, neither of us could get onto the internet to get started on the day. Several others of the missionaries were wandering around visiting with one another and waiting for access to the net since most of the work that is done in many of the areas is by internet. Finally the word of explanation came from Dudley our CSR (computer service representative). It seems that someone had cut and stolen the Telecom internet cable leading from the ground to the top of the telephone pole on the office grounds. There is a market for the colorful cable wires so it is not uncommon to have such thefts. Dudley said ours were stolen once before about 3 years ago. Often these telephone wires are made into baskets and sold in craft markets. It is not uncommon to see a sign claiming: "These baskets were not made using stolen wire."

So people did what they could for a while at the office, then just went home. We don’t know if it will be repaired by tomorrow, but if not, we may just hang around the flat and see what we can do from here. What a funny place we are living in. TIA. This is Africa!

Sunday, October 25, 2009

A P- Day Outing With the New Senior Sister Missionaries

We are very excited to have two senior sisters joining us in the area office. Two Sundays ago we picked up Sister Ellen Lee and Sister Virginia Dolinar from the airport and brought them back to Dukes Court to settle them into their new life in South Africa. They are such great sisters and yesterday we took them on an outing.

We went to Lion's park where we saw the most sleepy, lazy lions you have ever imagined! What a change from the last time we were there when I got such amazing pictures. Really is was silly how little they showed off for these new sisters!

Isn't this one just goofy?


We did have a chance to feed the giraffes and ostriches. Sister Lee just couldn't keep her hand out there when the giant tongue came stretching to retrieve the pellets she was holding. She could touch this baby one, but could not feed the big one.

Sister Dolinar was much braver. She fed the giraffes happily and even allowed the ostrich to peck the food from her hand.

As we were leaving we stopped to take a picture by this blooming Jacaranda tree.

They are all over and make such a lovely statement everywhere they stand.

There are so many of these beautiful trees and their lavender blossoms next to deep red bougainvillea bushes are amazing!

Next we headed to Pretoria which is called Jacaranda City to see more of the trees, and then to the Voortrekker Monument.
This is an amazing monument and museum dedicated to the early Dutch settlers who, like the Mormon Pioneers, experienced hardships and battles with natives while they were searching for a place to settle and worship in peace and for them, away from British dominance.

Their experiences were not unlike our pioneers and their covered wagons, clothing, rag dolls, and other artifacts were almost identical. The fence around the monument is so striking.

This is a view of the blooming Jacaranda trees taken from the top of the monument (which is a huge building.)
It was such a nice spring day in South Africa and we are so glad to be here.

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Successful Primary Program


While you were all sleeping over there, the Tembisa Ward Primary children presented a most remarkable sacrament meeting presentation to the members of their ward. Elder Wells and I could not have been more proud of them. I gave out the parts the week before conference and by the time we met again most of them had them memorized. That may not sound remarkable to you, but most of the children are not members and we have no talks during primary so they really haven’t had much experience. We met for a practice yesterday, Saturday, and a few were missing, but still a good turnout. We had 19 speaking parts and only one or two, who I think may struggle with English or reading maybe, had a little trouble, but the others were confident and had their parts learned. There were a zillion details to think about without really anyone to counsel with (except my great companion) and it’s been a good challenge for the aging brain to put it all together. But today those beautiful children really pulled it off. The bishop and counselor over primary were very impressed with them, practically overwhelmed, in fact, and the children were pleased with themselves, too. The bishop told them that as he listened to them speak and sing he could see them as the future Bishops, Elders Quorum presidents, Relief Society presidents and leaders of the church. He would be an old man then listening to them then, and he would be glad. He was quite emotional and it was very sweet. Sadly, none of the primary presidency was there to see the children perform.

Primary time itself, however, was pure chaos. It was kind of like Halloween afternoon in an elementary school room. There were so many children in that tiny room and not enough chairs and Sister Mabasa who usually takes the little ones wasn’t there so we had them with us also. Elder Wells stayed with me and did a great story of Amalickiah and Moroni with props – a walking stick with a piece of sheet attached on which he had written Moroni’s title of liberty – he even used children as actors, but oh my, to keep their attention was something else.

We passed off a few articles of faith, did several action songs, even taught them popcorn popping. Finally I put my lesson plans aside and passed out paper and crayons and had them go at it. We took a break to take all 30 of them outside for a cookie, and a picture or two, then back in for a closing of sorts. I made each one a coloring book with pages telling what we had studied thus far this year, and enclosed a small bag of crayons as a thank you gift for their hard work which we gave out at end.

I am so pleased that due to the effort to put this program together we have also made great progress in learning their names and even managing to pronounce them relatively well. For the past couple of weeks Elder Wells has taken each child to the back of the room and snapped his/her picture holding a quickly written name tag while I was getting set up for primary. Every week there are new or different children so I now have seven laminated picture cards each showing 4 children that I can refer to. Today as I sat in front of them in the chapel I could actually silently name almost all of them. Amazing! In the beginning I could not remember their names from the time they told them to me till the next minute. The names were so foreign to my ear. But now I’m actually calling them by name during primary. (Of course the name tags hanging around their necks do help.)


I am extremely grateful to have had the opportunity to work so intensely with these wonderful children and come to love each one. I am greeted every week by 5 or 10 children who have already set up the chairs and who give me hugs and take my things and begin setting up the CD player and putting up pictures from my bag, and whatever else they can find to do to help me get ready for primary. They have learned the familiar things that we do to get ready and they want to be a part of it. Then we go to Sacrament meeting. They sit in front in the rows facing center, Elder Wells and I sit next to them in the first row facing forward looking at them. Generally two or three come to sit with us. It is a happy time.

Today two more children told me they will be baptized in November, and the missionaries told me that several more will be baptized on December 20th which will be our last day to attend the Tembisa ward. And the most special bonus of all, Matt will be there with us to be part of it. Wonderful!!!


This is my favorite ever picture so far. As soon as they see the camera come out they pose so last week I decided to put my face into the shot as well. Aren't we a happy bunch? You can see the picture cards I'm using to learn their names. Nyiko is next to me then Sesi (a young woman just there to help), Bennert is smiley in middle, Tabelo on left, then Morena, then Daniel on right. (These are some of the easier names!)